Psychology of talk 👇
Have you experienced ever that someone told you after a fight that i thought you have understood, what i wanted to say, when i actually don't say. Or vis versa, you have expected to someone that they should understand what you want to say, when you actually don't say.
Let's understand what exactly happen in this situation.
• The person is not saying anything but expecting others to understand.
- Unnecessary expectation builds up.
- Anger builds up that other person is not understanding you.
- High chances to get misunderstood by people.
- Simple talk, it could be ended at destroyed relationship.
• Most of the time we gets annoyed by someone behaviour and we don't say anything but we expect that they will understand, by their own when we ignore them. But that's not the solution. Just say it directly, if you are getting annoyed even after ignoring.
So, the simple solution for it. Just speak up. Don't expect, people to understand your silence. Because we all have different mindset and in reality we can't read the person's silence.
In communication the most important thing is the person should be a good listener. Effective communication requires active listening. We need to listen to other person point of view just a single person is talking and other person is not involved in a communication will ruin relationship there's possibility that both will get hurt ending with nothing but guilt inside them it's better to talk with eachother to have a healthy interaction and to maintain relationship that they have don't expect that other person will understand you it's not true we need to speak up to the person share our problem and what we are going through then only the communication will be effective and it will help to build…